Treatments for Sexual Problems

You can resolve your sexual problems and dificulties with the help of hypnotherapy and Mindfulness-based Cognitive Behavioural Therapies. You can reduce your stress and anxiety about your sexual performance, premature ejaculation.

Sexual problems for women

Frigidity is not a term used or accepted by professionals.

Our sexuality is not something which exists in isolation, it’s a part of our emotional, psychological selves.

Both men and women must feel safe, secure, and have the right conditions to desire and enjoy sexual intercourse.

In the past babies often died during the birth or soon afterwards, and life expectancy was low. Because life expectancy was so low 22 or 23 years of life, it was imperative that a woman was pregnant and bear as many children as possible.

Sex was for procreation for the race to survive. Men had to get an erection and penetrate if the race was to survive. Women take more time to be sexually aroused and always have done.

Having family members in the room next door, aggressive or drunken partners will turn many women off.

Sensuality is one of the keys to our sexual responsiveness, but if children are raised not to touch, hug, caress or trust others. It affects us as adults. A result of this is people who are afraid and threatened by touch. Women who have been physically or sexually abused either as children or adults may find it very hard to become sexually aroused.
Most women who get labelled as frigid are very concerned, caring, warm people but find it very difficult displaying overt sexual pleasure, because their instinctive responses are repressed or hidden. They are only able to show their feelings when they know and trust their partner, and such trust often takes a long time to develop.

Impotence

There are a large number of causes of impotence some of which are physical others are psychological .

Sex is a so called “paradoxical behaviour” because when we put pressure on ourselves we can lose an erection, or suffer rapid or premature ejaculation . Such performance anxiety may be lack of self confidence, fear of failure, feelings of inadequacy, life stresses, (related to job, the family situation, or guilt). Fatigue is another cause of impotence.

At Wellbeing Hypnotherapy you can use hypnotherapy, life stress reduction to increase your confidence, relieve stress, fear of failure and inadequacy.